Hey Reddit, I need some advice. I've been talking to this girl for about 2.5 months now, we've gone on 3 dates and have chemistry and have definitely hit it off.
Friday night we had our third date. Mini golf, then we went back to my place and slow danced in my living room and got smoothies. It was fun! We cuddled and watched a movie to end the night. I've been single for about 4 years and this girl seems pretty cool, I like her company.
She comments on my photos I post and also texts me in the morning when she knows I had a bad day. We aren't exclusively dating yet but she had definitely gone the Extra mile to show that she cares about me.
On our date she was talking about how she doesn't like it when guys come up behind her at bars and try to get her to grind on them. Last night she posted a video of her grinding on some guy and it rubbed me the wrong way. I'd be lying if I said it didn't bother me.
I was also out last night and was kinda drunk. She replied to my story saying "have funnnn" and then later posted that video. I swiped up and said "wtf" and she said "whaatt" and then asked where I was.
Yeah we aren't dating exclusively, I know that. But this really does bother me especially when the tried making it sound like she didn't like that stuff. The crowd she hangs with it definitely not my crowd, but when I'm with her she's a lot more chill and down to earth. (She goes out a lot with her girlfriends and some weird looking guys).
It's odd to me that she would post that the day after telling me how she didn't like that stuff. It's also weird seeing that the day after I went on a date with her.
I don't know what to do. I feel like i should communicate my thoughts but I don't know how to do it or what to say. I don't want to screw this up but also feel like I shouldn't do nothing about it.
Any insight is appreciated.
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