I (25 F) met a guy (25 M) 1.5 months ago. I can’t tell if he’s using me for sex or if he likes me. He make plans for our dates in advance, usually a few days in advance through text. However, he only asks me on dates once/week. Not sure if this is a bad sign. We have been on 6 dates in the past 6 weeks. I tried to ask him if we could text a bit more in between dates (I’m aware this probably came off as needy, but I’m someone who is big on texting and it’s important to me). He told me he isn’t really a texter but that he would try texting me more. However, he didn’t. He really only texts to set up dates, which I’ve come to accept. He usually takes me out for drinks or to a hookah lounge in the evening typically around 8 PM and we’ll be out and about until 2 AM. After, we always go back to his or my place and have sex, and usually (4 out of the 6 times) spend the night with each other. He cuddles me, kisses me, and occasionally calls me pet names. He’s told me he likes falling asleep with me and cuddling me. He’s kissed me on the forehead and hugs me goodbye.
When I ask him about what he wants, though, he tells me he wants to go with the flow and get to know me more.. But I’m not sure what to think. I’ve asked him if we could hangout more than once/wk, but right now he’s working part-time and studying for the MCAT, so he claims he doesn’t have the time. I don’t know if he’s making excuses though. I’m not sure if he’s even all that interested in me, or if he’s only sticking around for sex. I mean, we only see each other once a week, don’t text in between dates other than to set up a date, and sex is always expected with every date. Does it seem like he is only interested in sex or something more? Any signs for how I can tell?
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