Hi, Im a 22F straight, just for reference. Around 4 months ago i installed tinder because ive started getting desperate. Matched with this guy, he hits me up, we chit chat about random things, amongst which i ask him:
Me: what are you looking for on tinder? Him: i dont have anything defined, im at a point in my life where im down for anything, casual or serious.
I want something serious. During our time talking he would occasionally throw in random sexual comments about touching me when we meet up, to which i was like i find you hot too but dont touch me the first time we meet. Anyways we were supposed to meet up 2 times, neither times it happened because one time he had overtime work, the second time he was sick. Around mid april i started getting discouraged and basically just ghosted him.
Fast forward to last week, he randomly texts me again, and im stoked. And then i did the most idiotic thing and made a sexually suggestive comment. I basically said ive been sunbathing lately and then followed it up with: "taking applications for somebody to rub sunscreen all over my back." He responded "hahaha do you want a massage?"
Genuinely would like to try something real and serious with this guy, but i want your opinion, is this doomed? Is this an epic fail and hes just gonna want to be friends with benefits now or can i fix this somehow?
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