Prior to making things official, we’ve been seeing eachother for 3 mo. I’ve been badly manipulated in the past before so I just wanted to get a second opinion. Initially I wanted to say yes because I think I do but now that I’ve thought about it I can’t help but think this is just a test or that I’m being naive.
Edit: we were having an emotional conversation prior - it was the last night before he was going on vacation and both of us were crying. I asked him some things like “how did you do this when I went on vacation?” and “are you going to miss me?” Of course he said yes and that it’s probably harder for me because we’re much closer than we were when I left. he got deeper and told me that he had three questions that he wanted to ask before he left and that I didn’t need to answer them right away. they were “are you still fearful of our connection?” I said yes but that I’ve gotten comfortable with being scared. “do you think you’re capable of loving another person?” yes, that’s not the problem. the problem for me is when that person can’t reciprocate my love or the love ends suddenly and im abandoned. And then he hit me with that last one! In which I said I’d like to answer when he got back.. I find it strange that he didn’t ask “are you falling in love with me?” or express “I think I love you, do you love me?” I asked for a further explanation and he simply said he wanted to know how deep my feelings were for him….
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