I am (F28) black and have had problems with acne and hyperpigmentation for over 10 years now. I have tried multiple things, my breakouts are not constant but the problem is the scars from years ago are still on my skin, so it piles up and does not look good. I have minor breakouts and worst of all- prominent scars on my face, neck, chest and back. This shatters my confidence completely. I try to maintain a positive attitude about it but deep down I know it's very unlikely that I find someone to love as long as I have this issue. It has prevented me from going after relationships that could have been happy in in the fear that they will reject me when they find out, and instead settle for the guys that will not hurt me as much if rejected, but it never turns out great cause my heart is not in it, or we are not compatible. I wear makeup often, and with or without I get many compliments and advances, but my body is actually the worst so I tend to not follow up with dates I would actually like to go on. I could go on and on about this. And i know there isnt any magical solution to this, but i just want to know how one would react to seeing someone's body with so many scars.
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