Not really seeking advice per se, but whatever. I (24M) have long struggled with dating. I didn’t get romantically involved with anyone until college, and I still haven’t had a REAL relationship. But I want one. I downloaded all the dating apps, and if I’m lucky I’ll get one ACTUAL match (meaning not a bot or someone just looking for Instagram followers) a month. So, three days ago, I shoot this girl a message on okcupid, she responds, and we really hit it off! It’s going really well, and we consistently chat until this morning I wake up to find that she just unmatched me out of the blue. I know I shouldn’t take it personally, but it’s so hard not to. Because of my social anxiety, it usually feels like apps are the only chance I have, but between the low number of matches I get (excluding obvious bots) and shit like this it’s becoming increasingly difficult to have any sort of optimism.
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