Hello everyone! I'm new to reddit in general, but I thought I'd seek advice outside of my usual haunts.
I'm a 26 year old female living in the midwest, natural redhead, and abstinent by choice.
Despite my choice, I have actively participated in my local BDSM community for the last two years and regularly use multiple dating sites.
I've become a lot more extroverted since I joined and am often out and about, my friend circle is larger and my confidence has grown exponentially.
But I still haven't had any luck finding a partner. Over 90% of men that approach me already have a partner or few and just want to throw me in as an afterthought.
The other 10% immediately start asking gross questions about my hair color/remark on what they'd like to do to redheads or virgins like me or say the abstinence thing needs to change, pronto.
Is there a way out of the cycle? I have a lot of nerdy hobbies and list those more prominently than being kink positive on my profiles, and I'm always conservatively dressed in my photos.
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