Bear with me, this has back story, but only because I want to explain the context. Refer to TLDR if you get bored.
I (F19) met this guy (M19) about a month ago. He got my snap, but I wasn't really into it. Not looking for guys. He asked me every day to hang out for about a week, finally I caved and we went to dinner. We've snapped every day since.
Like 5 days later, we were both in San Diego for spring break so we met up. We hit it off again really well, both obviously had a thing for each other, I slept over but nothing intimate. We were drunk, and the whole night he was telling me how beautiful and amazing I am, how happy he was to have me there, basically every compliment you can imagine. He told me how he'd be hurt if I hooked up with anyone else. He called me "babe" and said he "trusts me faster than anyone he ever has" and said how he could sleep next to me every night. I was obviously flattered. See, I took great caution on this though because he could just be trying to sleep with me, that why I didn't sleep with him that night.
But all the signs were good, my friends were telling me how well he talked about me all the time and how much he liked me.
We hung out again about a week later, he slept over, all was well. Hung out the next night, but he was acting a bit different, energy was different. We were drunk again, I slept over, tried to get intimate but he was too drunk, tried again in the morning but I wasn't feeling it. He respected that.
We all had to move out of our University because of Covid-19. Whatever. He lives 40 minutes away. He promised me we'd hang out. Kept sweet talking me when we were together, but not snapping me the same.
Still, nothing about hanging out. It's been like a week. He initially snapped me videos like how he did before, now he just sends me pics of his face, leaves me on delivered for a few hours and I see his snap score go up so I know he's snapchatting other people (petty, I know. I've never done this to another guy so that's why it scares me).
So I started playing games back. I left him on delivered for half a day, posted on my story so he knew I was ignoring him, very petty, I know. Terrible of me to do. But it worked, he snapped me 3 times in a row, one in frustration saying "aye??". But obviously as soon as I responded it was back to same old.
He snapped me last night my name in all caps, I left him on delivered, responded this morning, now he's ignoring me again. What the heck???
See, normally, I'd just move on. But he told me all these amazing things and now is acting like I don't exist. Do I keep playing his games? Drop him completely? Ask him what's up?
Could it just be the coronavirus situation and now he's home and has other things to worry about? If he wanted to see me he would.
See, I would confront him, but I don't want to come off as needy or too available because it obviously didn't work in the past for him. As soon as I started actually being available and expressing that I liked him, he pulled away.
WHAT DO I DO.
TL;DR: guy who I really liked and seemed really down is suddenly playing games and ignoring me. Do I play back, drop him, or ask him what's up? Is he even worth my time?
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