I (23f) met with this guy (24m) back in January after talking a bit on tinder. I wasn’t really sure if I wanted to meet him, but he exceeded my expectations in every way. Smart, funny, charming, cute as hell. I wasn’t expecting to get along with him so well. I think he felt the same way, because after our first date he texted me letting me know he wanted to do it again.
We’ve met 5 times since January. Since meeting him, he went from having 2 jobs to 4. He’s moving apartments and is going on a short trip soon. He’s incredibly social and has a million friends. So as you can imagine, I started seeing and hearing from him less and less. I didn’t wanna bother him, nor do I like texting, so I only really texted him to see if he wanted to hang out. He always made time for me and if something happened, would reschedule. He sounded excited to hang out every time and I’ve had a good time with him each time.
Last date however, we met really late, we were both tired and I was in a bad mood...maybe he was too? But I told myself I’d ask him if he was still interested in seeing me, because I was having second thoughts about him liking me and I kinda just wanted to get it clear and not chase someone who’s not into me. So I asked, and he said he likes hanging out with me but is not in the place for a relationship right now. When we have time, we should for sure hang out but it’s not a priority of his.
I didn’t really know what to say after that. I can’t tell if he’s letting me down easily or not. I’m not looking for him to be my boyfriend right now, I just know that I wanna continue seeing him if he wants to as well. I don’t know if this means I’ll never hear from him again, or if I’m always going to have to be the one to initiate a date.
Never met anyone like him and honestly, I don’t want to lose him. But I don’t want to be clingy and scare him off. I want to give him space but I don’t want him to think I’m mad or even forget about me. Not sure what to do or if this is the end or not. Please help me
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