Hi,
so I met this girl online, and we exchanged only few messages each a day, and I realized she usually answered my question very descriptively, but did not really ask back. After few days of texting we met, and the day before that I was afraid about her flanking, as she again replied very descriptively but did not try to expend the conversation. We got a coffee and spent a lot of time together and enjoyed a lot. She seemed very interested and she was the one saying we should meet again etc.
Well we exchanged Facebook and some further texting after that was almost non existent. I usually asked how how she was doing, while she answered, but did not really ask back, sometimes did not even say hi. I thought again she was gonna flank, however we went to the city center on Saturday and were together about 7 hours, very enjoyable from both sides, we told each other goodbye like 3 times (we just could not leave each other pretty much), and she was the one who always said, we should go somewhere else one more time before leaving. It was quite cold, however she had no incentives to leave at all. After that, she wrote a quite long message saying she enjoyed the time very much and was very happy to know me and that she hopes we will continue meeting each other. During that day out I asked her about texting and all she said was that she does not really like to text in general, and that she hopes I don't mind.
Today we texted again about our meeting tomorrow. The pattern was similar, she described her online school and we appointed the meeting place and time. However she did not even ask where we are going, she showed no interest in that way, just appointed and that was all. Now I am very worried that there is something I am missing. She told me she does not like texting, however she does seem to be online quite often for a girl who says that (however she is studying and said a lot of friends are texting her about a lot of stuff and she tries to reply to every one). When we are out, she does ask a lot about me, and shows a lot of interest, however in text she sometimes does not even say hi or asks about my mood.
I am worried because every time we met, I was very motivated and also in the context of her message after Saturday I felt great. However her way of texting is demotivating and I am afraid she spent the time with me only not to make me disappointed and wrote the text just because I said something about her texting patterns. I wonder, I am I overthinking this ? I mean if she was really not interesting she would not meet me right ? Or she would not write the text just to satisfy me...i hope the text was honest. It is very hard for me to judge the situation, as when we meet I feel great about everything, and again, Saturday was amazing. We are meeting tomorrow again and she comes from quite far away. Any help ? Thanks.
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