So i (20) started dating this guy (20) a month ago and we instantly clicked. He was so kind, treated me so good, paid attention and remembered the little things I've told him etc. He made me think that all his attention is for me and like I'm the only girl he talks to right now.
We hadn't talked about seeing other people while we are dating but i have let him know (indirectly) that i wouldn't want him to see other girls. One time we were talking about my guy best friend and firstly he got kinda jealous but later told me "Im not the one who should tell you what to do. If you want to have something with him, then have" but i explained to him that the guy was just my friend and we stopped talking about him.
Yesterday i had a very bad feeling, my gut was telling me something was wrong and i couldn't stop thinking about it. As i was driving in the late hours trying to clear my mind i thought "what if i pass near his bungalow (we were nearly always hanging out there to spend the time only the both of us alone)?" After some time doubting if it's kinda sociopathic or if it's the right thing to do, i decided to listen to my gut.
And i saw his car parked there. I was shocked because we hung out the day before and now he is with other girl. I called his number but obviously he didnt answer, then i went home and while i was waiting for him to be online i fell asleep.
Today we chatted and i told him that i know he was with other girl (but i refused to tell him where did i know this information from) to which he acted confused and later agreed and told me "we never really talked about seeing other people so nobody told me that i shouldn't do that". He apologized after that and told me he won't do that again if it's bothering me.
Like, we are dating only for a month but i developed big crush on him. I got mad at him at first for seeing this other girl but i kinda tried to understand him (because we are not in a relationship, so clearly he can do whatever he wants). I told him that seeing other people is bothering me and he said he won't do that again.
What do you all think? My friends keep telling me that if he did that once he is gonna do that again and that i should stop dating him, but i feel good when i am around him and i have a great time. Did i do the right thing for deciding to continue dating him for now?
Ps. I apologize for my mistakes, English is not my mother language.
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