So about two weeks ago I met up with this girl and we got Ice Cream. She texted me right after saying
“thanks for hanging out today! it was fun!”
And then followed my Instagram the next day. All good signs! I texted her next Saturday night asking if she was free Sunday, she replied
“I’m seeing my friend before she leaves for her mission trip today :( sorry about that!”
I should’ve texted her earlier but I’m not to worried, I texted at 7:30 the night before, she couldn’t hang, seemed genuine. I reply back with
“Thanks for letting me know have fun! Let’s plan on doing something again soon 👍🏻”
No response. Not good but the thumbs up can be seen as convo ender. I hit her up Wednesday with a casual text talking about a movie getting canceled. It went like this....
Me: West Side Story got delayed a whole year. You totally jinxed it!!!! Tbh worst thing to happen in 2020 (1:38pm)
Her: I know it’s so upsetting! well atleast the cast will be able to walk the red carpet if covid is more controlled by 2021 (4:30pm)
Me: I was really surprised when you mentioned Rachel (the actress in the movie). You’re the only other person ik who knows who she is! How’d you find out about her? (8:23 pm)
Her: one her youtube videos came up on my recommenced a year ago I think? it was a cover of a song from a musical I think (9:05 pm)
Her: I tried finding it but I think it was deleted 😟 either way she’s SO GOOD (9:08 pm)
Me: Sends linked video. I was actually playing/singing her version of this song for some people last night! (Next day 3:34pm)
Been two days and she hasn’t answered. Should I start to worry? She ghosted me once before and still went and got ice cream with me after I asked. How do I respond without coming off as desperate? I HATE double texting, maybe she’s playing games or just genuinely not interested anymore. I’d just be so surprised because we had a ton of charisma when we went out.
Should I start up a casual convo or just ask her to get lunch sometime this week. Would love a females opinion!
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