Hi, a fairly new friend of mine (roughly ten months) messaged me today and asked me on a date. I said sure and probably a bit too ambitiously agreed to meet up tonight.
The problem is i’m now riddled with anxiety. Dating has never been a forte of mine and I feel like i’m too panicked to present what is my natural self. I don’t know if I should just bail and reschedule, or go through with it tonight. I’d hate for her first impression to be that i’m nervous. The last time we had hung out at friends, we were both drunk at a friends party and I was insanely confident and grounded. That’s an entirely different representation she has of me than right now.
Objectively I know nerves are a good thing, because it means it’s authentic. Perhaps i’m just looking for someone to calm me down. But the nerves seem almost paralyzing.
Does this relate with anyone? Did I agree too soon?
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