You'll hear stories from friends, you'll read things online, or you'll experience some top-shelf ouch in the pursuit of partnered happiness.
"All men are trash", "all women are garbage", you'll say.
At the end of the day, everyone wants to be happy, if possible, with another person. There's nobody who would flat-out say "No, I'd rather go out with this person, to get them to a point where they'll be posting on reddit about me.".
Of course, you'll see shitty experiences on the internet. Nobody ever focuses on good things in life, so nobody ever contemplates the lack of fecal moments in their lives.( You'll get there too, eventually; remember this when you do.)
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Not only that, the way people go about processing negative experiences, seems to be the exact opposite of what they claim to want. At some point, the strategizing and red flag taxonomy take over and you forget that the reason that you're dating is to find love, not avoid heartbreak. These strategies take over and make it such a scary and calculated experience. "Am I saying the right thing?", "Did he/she ghost me?", "What should I say?".
I know who you are, otherwise you wouldn't be reading this post LOL. Bad experiences exist to push you to the right experiences, with the right people. Tattoo this sentence on your foreheads, so you can see it every morning in the mirror.
Mistakes don't exist. The right person will not have a switch flip in their heads, because you convinced them, because you sent them that one funny Byzantine Empire meme, or because you kept them interested. The right person won't get bored of you and you won't lose them by being too awkward in a fucking tinder conversation. Once you feel that liberation, that freedom, you'll get through the process much more easily.
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