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Sunday, April 25, 2021

am I being hit on or is he just being nice ?

alright. we are coworkers. we met at this restaurant we work at, and he is a cook and I'm a waitress. I felt the energy between us shift a while back. after not working for 6 months due to Rona I went back to work. and he asked me "so are you not moving huh?" and I said "why? do you want me to move out of the country?" and he said "god forbid I want the opposite" that was our first interaction after a few months.

I'll recount here a few scenarios:

1.a few days ago my boss teasing the crap out of me and as I joke I said "that's it ! I'm quitting" and he said "no you're not"

2.a week ago he came into the restaurant as a customer with his friends and I was at the table behind them and he said "you see her ? she's our best employee here" he kept talking about me but I couldn't hear much. and then as I was walking by he randomly said "who loves you most in the world?" and I pointed to him.

  1. it was towards the end of the work day and me and my co workers were just chatting and we got to the topic of dating and I said "my problem is that I am attracted to trash cans" and he said "I'll make a great trash can"

  2. a few days ago, he rang the bell, my co-worker and I went to get the food out to customers, my co-worker left with a stack of dishes and I said " hey can I go?" and he replied " no. what do you have to away from here? just stay here all day and let me look at you"

  3. it was around 1am , I was at a bar with my co worker and moments before I said goodbye to him as he went home, and he texted me for the first time ever asking me for language learning advice. and I did. and he asked me questions ever since and I was supposed to help him tonight with the text book I told him to buy but he was too tired and he was bummed that tomorrow I'm not working .

  4. this happened a few days ago. He was saying gibberish and I said "you might wanna start with saying hola or gracias" and he said "I wanna start with your boca" and when I say my jaw dropped and we both laughed so much

so my question is, gentlemen, I don't know how your brain works. and I don't know the mind of men. is he flirting with me ? or is he being nice??? because if he is being flirty and interested in me, how the hell do i not clam up?? how do I let him know I'm interested too?? (please I'm a coward and very awkward)

thank you in advance .

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