I want to preface this by saying I am in no way trying to humble brag that I get a lot of play, but objectively I am a good looking guy.
Despite this I am also poor (still in college), and kind of give off frat guy or fboy vibes. I suspect this is why women don’t stick around. I am still kind of a no fs given kind of guy at this point and a lot of the women I am dating are already settled in careers (I don’t really like college girls because I like more mature women lol)
How the night usually goes: I tell her to meet me somewhere at a certain time for drinks, she agrees, I usually just tell her let’s go out at x place at y time. It’s Typically the same night because I get more of a rush with it being so sudden I don’t like waiting I guess. I usually get there first because I like to get settled with a table and get a drink or two in early. Tell her when she says she’s on the way where I’m sitting. We say our hellos and start having some drinks.
I am good with conversation and the dates are usually fun. Some laughs little bit of serious stuff but never boring. I get drunk and joke around and what not and she’s usually very responsive. At the end of the date I say let’s take a walk whatever yada yada. Then I say let’s go hang out. Works every time. Always go to their place and we end up chilling for a bit and end up hooking up. After this we usually never talk again. Admittedly I am the worst texter ever and usually never reach out but even when I do it’s dry and they seem no longer interested.
I suspect it’s because I’m still in college and I get drunk on the date and am kinda a goofy guy that messes around, but then why even hook up with me?
Please help me with any advice.
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