So I recently reconnected with an old friend. Her and I were incredibly close two years ago, and she had a huge crush on me, but I didn’t do anything due to distance at the time, and we ended up just staying close friends. We lost contact a few months back, and I ended up taking work in her city this year.
We reconnected, and she offered up her sofa for me while I settle in. I took her up on it and we went out together, and for whatever reason the sparks were flying. We were fun, flirty, etc and I felt some type of way. Unfortunately at the end, she told me she had started dating some guy a month ago, and they were casually seeing each other, but she didn’t really feel super emotionally connected to him, to the point she had to psyche herself up to kiss him.
She even made plans with me to go do some activities with just me and her in two or three weeks, which is above what I would do with most of my friends (dance classes, that type of thing)
Now this made me feel incredibly jealous, but I’m honestly not certain what to do here. Didn’t know she was seeing anyone when I agreed to crash with her, and I’d like to tell her I’m interested in her, but not sure how to handle it. Is it unkosher for me to tell her while she’s casually seeing someone? They aren’t official so I don’t really think there’s anything wrong with me throwing my hat in the ring but I’m not sure
Also to be honest if she’s not interested I’m not sure I should be friends with her, as I definitely will have a hard time separating out my emotions. Not sure the best way to say this in a way that isn’t manipulative, or if I just purposely distance myself from her
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