I’ve (22M) been friends with this girl (21) for about 2 years now, and around September I realized I had feelings for her. In October I told her that I had feelings for her, and she told she liked me too. However, the next day she said she just needed time and needed to focus on other things besides a relationship for the moment but that it didn’t mean it wouldn’t be right for her eventually. Now usually I’d take this as her saying no in a nice way, but she’s really honest with me, and before I told her I liked her she talked to me about how she was stressing over some hard classes she was taking and was trying to figure out what she wanted to do after college so there is truth to what she said.
Fast forward to now. She’s figured out what she wants to do and I feel like she’s been showing signs perhaps trying to hint that she likes me still. I just don’t know, would it be considered pushy or like I’m putting pressure on her if I ask her out now? Or could it be a thing where even if she had made up her mind and would want to go out now she’d still prefer me to be the one to ask? At the end of the day I like her and would want to go out with her but she is my friend so I wouldn’t went to make her feel like I’m pushing her in any way.
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