I’ve been seeing this guy for 8 months or so. We have never said we love each other but we had good chemistry and we hung out causally. We admitted to liking each other. He was a bit cold at times because he had been hurt previously. We would tell each other when we miss each other and I even wrote him a poem.
We had been fighting a fair bit over Christmas. I thought he could communicate a bit better and I expressed concerns regarding a few other things. A lot of words were exchanged. He takes criticism really personally but I apologised. I do also have quite a strong personality and do stand up for myself. Which can be intense. I didn’t see him for two months. Then we catch up. We exchange small gifts as it was Christmas. Then we start having intercourse and he asks me to be his girlfriend, tells me he loves me and that I tick all of his boxes. Tells me we are making love. Tells me he’s happy I came back after the fighting. Etc. I said YES and said that I loved him back!
Then he has blocked me off everything the next day. I tried calling him a few times from a private number and no answer. Then my friend texted him saying I wanted to know what was going on and that I’m confused and I was worried. He has blocked me before once or twice because he retreats and hates arguing, he gets overwhelmed easily, but this was very unusual. He just told me he loved me for the first time.
I said I was on my way over via my friends phone. He was cold and stand-offish and said he wasn’t home.
Did I just get played?
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