This is about my past, not anything recent. Does anyone else realize this about themselves? Whoever you have feelings for, if they choose someone over you that you know or know of it gets stuck in your head and creates anxiety or this feeling of comparing and competition (which I absolutely hate, the idea I could be jealous). But, if your person goes out with someone from a dating app or you've never seen before, even hearing about how great he is doesn't bother at all.
In my past, there was one time where a good friend/crush decided to go out with another classmate I've met and talked to. In my head I know I have no malice towards the guy, he was a great guy, but I couldn't help feeling uncomfortable and always comparing or asking why.
I bring this up, because I really want to get rid of this side of me. I understand the logic behind why it's ridiculous, but I still can't help myself from feeling really insecure and dejected instead of being normal about it all and enjoying my damn life.
[link] [comments]
from Dating Advice https://ift.tt/vcq1uJ6
via IFTTT
No comments:
Post a Comment