Is it ever a good idea to convey one’s financial success (in a non flashy/braggy way) when there are good, non-gold digger women who desire that (rightfully so)?

I’m a 1%er. But I’m not flashy about it. I think women who find success attractive is natural and fine. But not if that’s the ONLY thing they care about. And I know how to spot an entitled gold digger from a mile away.

Given that, does it ever make sense to have a profile that has the subtext of “we’ll never have to worry about money and if anything we’ll live very comfortably?” Ofc that wouldn’t be the only thing to convey. I also want to convey that I’m self aware, high in EQ, kind/generous, funny, intelligent, etc.

It seems the general rule of thumb amongst wealthy men in my circle is to keep it a secret for basically as long as you can and make it a “cherry on top” surprise for the woman you deem wife-material later down the line.

But part of me wonders if it’d be more effective to convey this a little more explicitly upfront so as to attract more, high quality women. If so, how can I best do this when I don’t have flashy cars or live a flashy lifestyle that can be depicted visually?

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