TLDR; title + we’ve been physically and emotionally intimate. She tends to isolate when she’s overwhelmed and idk if it’s a case of that or if she’s gone forever.
I fell in love with a girl that’s emotionally unavailable after 2.5 months. She kept telling me she doesn’t know what she wants but her body language, her eyes, the way she was being vulnerable, etc always made me feel that she was starting to give in slowly. I had hope and was making sure she was heard and felt safe around me. We’ve slept together and I’m not bad in bed, so that’s there too.
It’s been a week since I’ve heard from her, she called me last saturday and the conversation went as per normal and she ended it with “I’ll call you” and I haven’t heard from her ever since. Idk how to feel about this. I’ve reached out a few times but no response. Idk if she’ll come back or if I should give up and start moving on.
Overall I wouldn’t say we had anything negative in our relationship except the fact that she takes time to trust and is always scared of being hurt. I think it got to her that she was falling for me and things escalated pretty quickly for her, for which she might be taking a step back to analyse, which I’m okay with, but without a word? That’s concerning.
I have mixed feelings now, idk if she’ll come back and our bond will be stronger or if she’s gone forever and is ghosting to avoid confrontation. What would you advise me to do? I think the right answer is to focus on myself and start forgetting about her but if she does come back, how do I proceed from there? I really like this girl and it’s been forever since I’ve liked someone like this. Thanks!
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