Need you opinion

Throwaway account because the person i am about to talk about is also on reddit.

Lets call this person Sloss

I have been talking to person, whom I have now developed feelings for, over a year now. I dont know how and when I got these feeling. I have always been someone who enjoyed my own company and never felt the need to be in a relationship anymore.

When we started talking I wasnt even looking forward to meeting this person (introvert problems). But Sloss wanted to meet me and I got out of my comfort zone and met Sloss. I enjoyed it, I wasnt awkard or creepy. The meeting went pretty well in my opinion and the fact that Sloss wants to meet again.

So recently we were texting as usual and somehow we started talking about relationships and I got to know she has been in a on and off relationship for the past year. This kind of made me feel weird, because if Sloss has a boyfriend, am I just a back up(not the best looking).

And it was Sloss's idea to meet the first time and the time after that. Sloss wants to meet again in the coming few days. I do not have it in me to get my heart broken, I wont be able to take it, but I do not want to back off because i kind of hyped the place up where we are supposed to meet.

I always thought she may feel the same about me. But I guess its not always clear. I am someone who like to talk straight to the point, but in this case I dont know if thats gonna be the best option. I am someone who likes to talk to people listen to their problems but always bottle up my own feelings, but in this case I feel like I should tell her how I feel

I was confused before if I like her or not, but after today I am certain that I do, and I would completely understand if she doesnt like me back. But what bothers me the most is even after having many friends and even a Boyfriend...why does she decide to talk to me everyday(I dont mind that at all), and wanting to meet me even though she doesnt get a lot of free time(thats according to her).

My question to you guys is... What should I do??? Do i meet her and be in the friend zone(where i do not want to be) or do I come up with some excuse for that day. And if we do meet do I confront on how I feel or like any sane MALE keep my feelings bottled up till something bad happens.

And if u would like you can DM me

Tl;dr

Sloss(the other person) is in an on/off relationship for over a year, but she talks to me and wants to meet. I like her and would like to be more than just friends. Should I meet her or not?

Please HELP!!!!!

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