Hii, I've been chatting on/off with a girl for 7 months now. (we both work alot and have a fairly busy life) We get along very well and have a ton of fun together when we meet up. This weekend we got together 2 nights in a row fri/sat night. (1st date we ever had 6+ months ago we got drunk and I offered for her to stay over and mentioned I would not attempt anything or do anything to make her uncomfortable, she appreciated that and slept in my bed) fast forward 6 dates--
Long story short, I took her out to a very nice dinner, went back to my place, played some competitive games (cornhole, table tennis, we got in my hot tub and she let me hold her for a while, had some drinks, went up to my room, watched a movie, I started to caress her arm and didn't get much physical response at all. So naturally I didn't continue. (I feel the need to address that I'm not unattractive at all and have always dated gorgeous women) so it's not that. She's even talked about coming to see me when I go on a job far away. Shortly after caressing her arm she looked at her phone and said its time to head home. I offered for her to stay and she denied. I'm a fairly sexual person and always make sure they're not following sex till marriage. So i figured it was nearing time to explore that side with her (given we've been flirting/going on dates for over half a year and are very much adults) upon getting home she texted me this:
"Shes back... and alive.... part 2 🤌 Thank you for another fun hangout sesh :)) and happy to say you actually crushed me in cornhole"
I responded: "Yay! Side note, im sorry if touching your arm made you uncomfortable. Ur super sweet and great to hangout with. So lmk ahead of time if you're not interested in that kinda stuff w me (: id rather know ahead of time than mess up a potential friendship"
Am i wrong for saying this/wanting to explore more than just personality? I see possible long term potential so I'm trying to be very patient.
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