I’ve known this guy for about a year now. When we first met, he used to flirt with both me and my best friend — it honestly felt like he just wanted whoever would say yes. He even told my friend he liked her.
We lost touch for about six months, and when we reconnected, things felt different. We became close friends — deep conversations, emotional connection, open about everything. I started to see him as one of my closest friends.
Then one night, things got physical. He initiated it, and I didn’t stop him. It takes a lot for me to get physical because I’m insecure about my body (I’ve always been self-conscious about having a small chest and feeling exposed), but in that moment, I was really turned on and I let it happen.
He was clearly excited and said nice things about my body, but because he’s an experienced guy, I couldn’t tell if it was real or just what he says to anyone.
After that night, he started trying to get physical again, but I’ve turned him down and told him it was a one-time thing. Then he confessed that he actually likes me and wants to start dating. I said no, mostly because I still don’t trust his intentions after how things started.
He even asked me, “If I hadn’t played the field in the beginning, would you have given me a chance?” — and I told him no. But honestly, I’m not sure how I really feel anymore.
He’s nice, and he’ll do anything I ask, but he doesn’t put in real effort. He doesn’t plan things or take initiative, and that’s important to me.
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