I am a 22F doing my masters degree and I am still confused about my sexuality I don't go with labels because I haven't found one which I feel comfortable. It's not a big deal for me and my family and friend group also very supportive it's won't make a difference in my life. 4 months back I got to know this girl in my class is lesbian and she felt comfortable around me so she shared it to me then she shared how she is going out on dates with other women by that time I was chill because I had no feelings like that towards her at all. Then we started talking more playing video games and I ended up having crush on her I told this to my inner circle (which is a wrong move because she is not out yet but I cleared it and apologised she is OK with it) and also to a common friend of ours. The common friend said "it will not work out you too are way similar in unesesaary ways". But the friend was supportive and kinda tried to be a wingman but also maintained boundaries with her. I started hanging out with her because I had a crush on her and told her I like her and the idea of us together is nice. She rejected and I knew she would it was not a surprise but I liked her company we stayed friends and ended up hanging out more. We use to joke how we would actually never work out as couple (it's kinda true). But 2 days ago when we hung out something changed after that she started to distance herself. Not talking like she use to. I don't remember saying anything wrong or crossing boundaries. I genuinely liked her company and being around even as a friend so when this happened It HURT me a lot. The sudden shift of energy is something I didn't like. I am ok with the rejection but I really liked this person and value her as a friend in my life. Things just hurt me idk what to do next. Ik for a fact she won't communicate properly even if I try to. Should I just stop being friends with her it would be very awkward we are in the same class. But what's my fault I am not understanding how come I am in the position where I am getting hurt again and again even when she is a friend or a crush.
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