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A bit of context: This girl and I knew each other from high school, but we never really talked back then. Fast forward two years, and we meet again. This time, we got along really well. A lot of the preconceptions we had about each other in high school turned out to be false, and now that we're older, we just clicked.
We started hanging out a lot—though not on dates—because I had no intention of pursuing anything romantic since she had a boyfriend at the time. That said, I did have some suppressed feelings for her, but I valued our friendship first and foremost.
About two months after reconnecting, things between her and her boyfriend started to fall apart and they broke up, and she wanted to hang out because she was feeling down. We spent the whole day together, and later that night, things got a little intimate, my first kiss and whatnot.
Here's where I need advice: that night, I asked her if she would ever date me. She said "yes," but explained that due to timing and circumstances, it couldn't happen. I was moving to the UK within a month, and she's moving to a different region within our country in a few days for her studies.
It's been over two months since then, and we still text every day and video call every few weeks. Before I left, I sent her a letter—kind of a mix of closure and hope for the future. She just received it, and now I'm wondering if I should stop texting her after this. Part of me wants to end it all since I do feel slight anger, feeling like a rebound.
I guess what I'm asking is once she reads it should I just stop texting for a while? is that usually better after writing a very personal and emotional letter, to give time and space?
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