To make a long story as short as possible: - In 2022, I (F28) went on two fantastic dates with a guy (M32) - in addition to me not living in the same city as him, he went through some mental health issues and decided he needed to be alone for a while - we had very limited contact but some, which also included him randomly asking if I was around last may - I spontaneously texted him last week when I was in his city for a few days seeing if he wanted to see a movie. He said “Hey!! Would but I’m gonna be busy tomorrow with work and school!” Then he texted me about something I barely posted about on IG (it was the last pic in a 10 photo post and he doesn’t even have instagram…) - I texted him two days ago again because I unexpectedly was back in the city. No answer.
THEN yesterday, I made the bold decision to just go to the cafe where he works, no warning. I wasn’t sure if he was working but turned out he was.
I brought a book and did a lot of reading but we also chatted a decent amount. Then I left because the cafe was closing, and I was like okay whatever, not happening, chapter closed. But like 3 minutes after I walked out, he texted me saying how hot I looked.
We texted a bit last night. He seems into it, like he even thanked me for just showing up at his work, but I honestly cannot tell. My text responses are definitely longer than his. The last text I sent him last night was pretty bold for me, and I straight up said that I was into him. He didn't answer but I knew he was busy last night and early this morning.
I sent another text this morning following up on something we'd talked about yesterday and received a pretty lukewarm response. And then nothing else when I wrote back. Now, I'm back out of the city he lives in.
Im more used to being chased by guys not doing the chasing... Anyone have any words of wisdom? Does he want me to keep talking to him? What else should I say?? Should I just let him go? How do I get him to be more responsive? (I'm very aware that I can't change a guy and not trying to)
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