I think I (27M) am getting worse at sex with gf (27F)
Have a bit of a weird one her folks. At first sex with my girlfriend was straight out of porn films. Throughout my sex life I prided myself on lasting for a long time, like 30 minutes to an hour with women and making sure they were satisfied.
Now that I've been with my girlfriend for some years now I'm really comfortable with her and sometimes cum under 5 minutes when she is just getting into it. I realise now it's because I have anxiety and trust issues and because they've went away with her. I'm now so comfortable and relaxed. This isn't so great as her meds that she's on have kinda killed her sex drive so it takes her a little longer to cum if she does. Sometimes I just can't hold it that long.
I can get her off with my fingers easily but as someone who used to get her off at least 3 times via muh diiiiick it kinda makes me feel like less of a stud when I fail to get her off like I used to. So any tips for lasting longer?
The only solution I've got is to tell my brain that I'm not enjoying this as I'm fucking her, sometimes this works but other times this kills the mood.
Any advice would be appreciated.
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