So as 33M i make decent money 72k, have a car, no debt really to speak of other than a 120$ charge on my comcast bill that auto pays its self off every month. Try to go places and talk to girls (not choosy), not one thats into the whole FWB or one night stand thing. Not a playboy, I am polite and nice, help people, but cant seem to find anyone, been looking for over 8+ years. Just not sure what I am doing wrong. I dont ghost people, not hidious or anything.
Like when I go out and try to meet people, not even sure what types of places to even go for stuff like that. I'd be happy just hanging out, going on dates, car rides, movies, normal stuff.
Just seems everyone is like OMG under 120K-250k+, you dont have a fancy car like a Bentley, Dont live an a magical castle, FOR SHAME, FOR SHAME!!! YOUR WORTHLESSSSSSSS!!! SHOO SHOO!!!!! Like when I said I wasnt choosy, i understand not everyone is a super model, just want to know where can meet a nice, decent girl? Like is there some sort of maze have to conquer, magic spell have to use to summon one, or are we to the point in society where you have to sell your soul in order to meet or find someone. Its sad now a days.
Just havent a clue where the "RIGHT" places to look or really what to do. Like you see all these cuter type movies on hallmark or whatever like where guys and girls meet at coffee shops or something as stupid as bumping into one another at a super market. Heaven forbid that happens in real life, If you bumped into girl at a supermarket (even on accident) your more than likely gonna end up as America's most wanted as a serial molseter...
I realize that technology and way society is now a days has really ruined relationships. noone can trust or take a leap, just want to fill there needs and call it quits, I am to the point of defeat because its just so hard to find anyone to click with that would enjoy something as simple as snuggling on the couch watching a movie, talking about something as stupid as what does that cloud look like to you, or making dinner together, or just for the heck of it drive around for no reason other than drive around. I am not a person thats into one night stands, FWB, or anything like that.
Realize im not perfect by any sense of the word, quirky, a bit shy, but just getting to the point feel like I am always just gonna be alone or unlucky or am the unworthy one. The other is there are more guys that girls so makes it even harder.
Not a "bad boy" type. I read light novels, play games on my PC, build computers, (IT guy by trade).
I find it utterly truly hilarious when people say its a men's society and MEN hold the power. HAHA That is totally wrong. A lot think that but look behind the scene's women truly run this world and make the boys think they rule. Boys are truly idiots lol xD sorry off topic…
Anyway to main point "idk what I am doing wrong, where the correct places to meet anyone, and what it is that girls really want'. If you read everything I am sorry for rambling or if I was all over the place.
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