I have just started dating a guy for just over a month now and it’s going great and he’s so lovely and reassuring ! We are on the same page about almost everything, we have had a few clashes about things (mental health related/communication styles), but we have sorted them and both want the same things and been very clear etc. The last two weeks though I have been getting awful ‘anxiety pains’ in my stomach that last a few hours or days and it’s really bothering me. I get them randomly and I think because I am an anxious attachment it may be me overthinking the situation. I just can’t help but think there is someone else, I find it hard to trust men and I am quite insecure in myself too. We are open with eachother about things to do with mental health and he’s the most reassuring man I have ever met and so open to understanding me on an emotional level and he is the same. But I just can’t shift this feeling ! With my ex and only past relationship, I ended up in the hospital with tests because my heart quite literally ‘skipped a beat’ because of how anxious I was about him being too good to be true lol. We had a happy, long relationship so I don’t know why I am still feeling like this when entering a new one :/ I need some advice and thoughts on whether this is a gut feeling/intuition or may be me self-sabotaging and how to get around it because the sick feeling is just so awful :(
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