Im 21(F) and he is 19(M)
So there’s this guy I really like, and he likes me too. We’ve been talking for more than a month now, and honestly, he seems like a really nice and gentle person. We talk a lot, about random things, deep things, life, everything. I genuinely enjoy talking to him and being around him.
But from the start, he made it clear that because of his religion and family situation, he probably won’t be able to do a love marriage. His future is kind of already decided by his parents, and eventually he’ll most likely have an arranged marriage.
He told me it’s my choice whether I still want to continue talking to him or not. He said we could still go out, spend time together, go on dates, and enjoy each other’s company, but he can’t promise marriage or a fully committed relationship in the future.
At one point he also said we should try not to get too attached. But then I told him that if we’re going on dates and doing all these things, obviously I’m going to get attached. And he was like, “okay, I meant not overly attached.”
And honestly, I don’t think he’s a bad person or trying to play me or anything. He’s actually been very honest from the beginning, which I appreciate. I’m just confused because I know feelings can grow, and I don’t know what happens if one day I fall too hard for someone who already knows he can’t stay forever.
And like I’ve never thought about date to mary or date to date only it was always like whatever happens happens but here it’s like already decided
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