I was seeing a guy for two months. I thought things were going great. We had sex a month in and I was fully prepared for him to ghost me after, but he didn’t and he continued seeing me for another month. I asked to be exclusive and then he tried to cheat the next day ( don’t want to get into the specifics).
I said we could go back to just not being exclusive but he just started slow fading me. Suddenly he was too busy to text back more than once a day, and he was too busy to hangout. I tried talking to him about it, I asked if I misread things the entire time and if I was just seeing what I wanted to see, because i was so certain that he really liked me before and was interested. He just apologized for misleading me, and we haven’t spoken since.
This was a man who was taking me out on dates, paying for things, and texting constantly. Before him the same thing happened with another guy, he was buying me lunch everyday, being vulnerable with me, texting me 24:7 and taking me on dates. Even people around us swore the other guy liked me, then three weeks after sex suddenly he just wanted a friendship and he claimed that’s all he ever wanted, which is complete bullshit. He even tried saying I was the one who initiated the sex which just isn’t true.
I feel like an idiot. Granted both these situations only lasted two months, but still. Am I missing som red flag?
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