I (32F) met a guy (33M) while on holiday earlier this year. We dated during my two-week stay and really connected. Before meeting him, I’d already been planning a move to that area sometime in 2026 for family/personal reasons, and he knows that.
Before I left, we talked about staying in touch and seeing each other again when I return. Since then, we’ve been in contact almost daily for 3 months. We talk about everything and the conversations are easy and consistent, but the dynamic has started to feel more friendly than romantic.
What’s confusing me is that he never asks about my plans to return, even though I’ve mentioned trips and future plans related to moving there. I still like him, and I think I’m becoming frustrated because while we talk so much, he shows very little curiosity about seeing me again.
I don’t know if he’s avoiding the topic because it feels too serious this far out (it’s still about 5 months away), or if he’s simply not interested romantically anymore. But if that’s the case, why maintain such frequent contact when we live on opposite sides of the world?
I’m torn between:
- bringing it up directly and risking changing the easy flow of our conversations,
- continuing things as they are and seeing what happens (and remain somewhat annoyed)
- or slowly letting the contact fade and reconnecting closer to my move.
Am I overthinking this, or does his lack of interest in my return say something important? I feel he might not bring it up as he doesn’t want to make me feel pressured because it’s also a big move.
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