Hi, first time posting here so please bear with me. I’ve been dating this guy for about 3 months and lately things have been off. In the beginning, he was very open and engaging but it seems to have switched. About a month ago, I asked if he seen this more as a friendship or as something more and he said yes. He also said he was building the courage to ask if we were official and that he enjoys the slow pace because of past hurt. I told him the pace was fine and let’s date a little more before making it official because ive also been hurt. Well fast forward til now, it seems like I have to push for a date (hint at it) for him to take initiative. If we do agree to a day, he doesn’t give details until day of so I’m left wondering if it’s gonna happen or not. Messages have been getting drier and drier over time. Texting gaps were always normal for us but the gaps have started to stretch to more than 15hrs. Also, he hasn’t really made an initiative to go on a date. I seen him last week and we only see each other once here and there (about every other week or so). I’m just confused and don’t understand. I’m wondering if I’m being soft ghosted. idk. He doesn’t seem like the type (he’s a super shy nerdy guy) but you just never know
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