I was a fool, to let my guard down and the moment I did I felt absolutely gutted this was the way she chose to cut communication
Meet this girl on an dating app at the start of the year, proceeds to only go for 3 great dates due to our busy schedule in the next 2.5 months. She also mentioned wanting to see me again over text 1-2 weeks after our last date. Things started to fade out when the virus hit and now I didn't replied to her last text since 1 week ago and she hasn't initiated any new plans either. I did ask her out 3 more other times before I stop replying completely
In all honesty I should have seen this coming 1 month ago, when communication was starting to get slower and slower, she would reply text but always ended up giving excuses when planning for the next date, and found out recently I was actually blocked from viewing her stories on instagram, but she left me as a follower which took me way longer than it should to find out when I didn't see new stories from her for a long awhile. Probably have gotten blocked for 3 weeks or more before I found out
If she faded after 3 dates I would have just gotten it, and cut my losses, but why would you constantly text someone out of nowhere? When you had already lost interest? Why would someone constantly feed you with hope when clearly they have no intention to hanging out ever again?
Felt super bummed by this, and weeks of sleepless night, I know there's probably not much I can do but should I send her a last text that's non-confronting to give myself closure?
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