So I decided to just let the women start the conversation this time around instead of me initiating the convo . Usually when I match with a girl I try to go beyond the simple “Hi, hello, how are you Doing etc ..”, and try to bring up something relevant from her bio .
This time around I wanted to sit back and see how girls approach men , since I have read so many complaints about men not being creative enough .. . For about 6 weeks till today I didn’t say one word when I matched with someone . I’d say 35% of convos didn’t even start after the match , I didn’t say anything and they didn’t say anything . The other 65% the girl I matched with Initiated the convo ... BUT I wasn’t impress at all . 90% of those messages where simply “ HI” “Hello” “how are you doing “ . The other 10% was a mix of compliments for my dog or on a rare occasion someone would say something differently ( and that’s because in my bio I have a question for them to guess and they pretty much simply answer the question when they match with me ) .
Overall I wasn’t impressed and actually expected this outcome . Hopefully women understand one day that the same way they want us to impress them we want to be impressed as well , especially in online dating .
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