Recently started seeing this guy (32M) for like three-ish months. I’ve been busy, so we haven’t had many dates (5-6) but he seemed really sweet and nice. He told me that he “never felt so close to someone so quickly” and is really affectionate and attentive. He constantly wanted to see me. Then, all of a sudden, he told me he was very busy, so busy that I have not seen him in three weeks, barely texting me. For Valentine’s Day all he said was “happy vday”. But he was understanding with my schedule, so I decided to reciprocate. I dropped off meals for him and told him I’d see him when things get better. After another week of silence, I asked him what was going on and he said he doesn’t want me to go and that we’ll talk it out in person.
THEN not only one, but TWO of my friends matched with him on tinder, and he messaged them BOTH FIRST. I can’t tell if I have a right to be angry. We didn’t decide exclusivity or have the talk, but to make excuses to me and actively pursue things with other people? I’m so sad. He seemed like he was smitten with me, but I’m slowly realizing it’s all an act. I don’t really know how to talk to him about how/why I’m upset, or if it’s even worth salvaging. He doesn’t owe me anything; I don’t know why I feel so betrayed.
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