So I 18M have been talking to this 21F, I moved a lot and got in a lot of trouble when I was in high school so dating was least of my worries but I dmed this girl and I figured out she only lives like 30 mins from me. From the dms and phone calls I had with her she’s super cool and is like minded. The only problem is theirs ALOT OF RED FLAGS. First of all she came in WAY to strong, instantly tells me she has two kids, just that alone had me skeptical. Ngl she’s fine as fuck so I still dmed her a lil bit really just out of boredom but she seems pretty all or nothing with this relationship shit. She wants a serious serious relationship. Ngl me being so isolated I’m just taking what’s infront of me. I started to text her more to find more and I got close with her and it took me a while but she moved me and I planned a date with her but I flaked on it a few weeks ago cause I’m really sketched out with some of these red flags imma get into later. Of the conversations we had she seems like she dealt with a lot of adversity just like me but in a way more intense way and she talks about how she changed and being a mother matured her. That really turned me on tbh, like I would call her and you could hear how she talks to her kids and you can see from how she interacts that she seems like a good mother. She’s got a full plate, working fulltime while she has her kids at day care and then she comes home to watch her kids more and finish her job training to be a medical assistant. I can tell she’s busy asf because when I asked to call, she made a scheduled call at like 7-7:30 on her way to work 😂 she doesn’t go to parties or does any drugs besides prescription meds. I wanna atleast try to start a relationship with her but some of the stories I’m hearing makes me super sketched. She strips on the side to pay bills because from the sound of it she is in a very toxic environment with her family and etc. Like she just got out of rehab a few months ago for Xanax (luckily it wasn’t anything harder) but she says she still takes it prescribed for her anxiety and that definitely has me stretched, then she talks about her baby daddy physically abusing her and showed me pics of her black eyes. She talked about her mom having lots of issues dealing with drugs moving from place to place. Idk I wanna casually do this but she is high interested and I don’t wanna meet kids and do all this extra stuff if Idk if imma stay. I’m just looking for advice because I’m really not into one night stands or none like that so if I’m in, I’m in and I gotta make sure I’m with someone I can grow with.
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