I’m 27f and never had anything close to a relationship. I do however have a small collection of experiences where I got love bombed and “played”. I am grateful to have learned from those experiences, and I am no longer naive, but growing up with parents who were together from highschool, my brother being engaged to his girlfriend of 13 years, I feel like I missed out on love - or at least young love. I thought it would just happen, the way it did for them?
It’s hard to think it’ll happen when it happens, as I get older. I have tried everything.. hinge, staying for happy hour with coworkers, being more friendly to people at work, going on dates with friends, hinge, rekindling old flames..
I often wonder about when it finally will happen and how I will feel, and look back on this struggle and laugh. But then part of my wonders if that day will never come.
The problem is I can’t seem to hold anyone’s interest or be valued as someone they can’t lose. Any tips or stories about finding love later on? What changes within you when it finally happened.
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