Hello there,
Under different circumstances, I would just straight up ask her, but things are a little tricky.
So, I got in contact with a girl (29) again, on which I had a huge crush several years ago. Back then, we met pretty often at parties and got along very well. There was also a situation where I could have kissed her, but I was too insecure back then. A good friend later told me, that she told him almost the same story. I am still kicking myself for that...
Anyway, last week, after a few gaming sessions (video games, that is) she actually came over and we talked and laughed all evening. It felt great. I also felt like she gave me a TON of signs (laughing all the time, very open posture leaning towards me, switching between looking at my eyes and lips all the time). Eventually I put my hand on her leg and knee and asked her if she felt comfortable with that. Again she laughed hysterically and said: 'I don't know... hahaha! Dunno! ... Dunno! ... Maybe we should sit the way like we did before'. I said okay and we had a moment of that weird silence. But not for long, and we began talking and laughing again as if nothing happened.
Did I just overtax her? She seemed really confused. I have no idea if she is interested or not and if I should approach her again. We played some video games the days after that and we still get along so well and laugh so much. I don't want to ruin that, but I find her incredibly attractive. I can't turn it off. Also, she said yes to my question if she wanted me to visit her soon (I asked while we were playing).
Any idea what I should do next? What signs can I send? For some reason I am very insecure with her... maybe because the feelings from the past are slowly being revived. I feel like a teen again.
Thanks!
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