I've never understand. Every time I or someone asks Reddit why a girl (or guy) doesn't text back, people say "Just move on. She's not interested." Which isn't true!
Here's some reasons why someone would'nt text back:
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They're actually busy. Just because you're interested in someone, doesn't mean that means their whole world has to revolve around you. Breaking news! Not everyone is on their phones for 24 hours! I'm certainly not on my phone for the whole day! I miss text messages here and there because I was out doing something (school work, projects, games, etc). If a girl based our relationship on how much I text back or text at all, I probably wouldn't even want to start a relationship with her! People are busy! People have lives! Send them a text and go on about your day!
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They're dealing with something. Depression, family issues, something personal going on in their life. They may miss messages because they got caught up with life and can't deal with you right now!
Now of course, there are some cases where they aren't interested. Or they were interested but for some reason lost interest, found someone else, not looking to be in a relationship, whatever the case may be. But that's not always the case.
My advice would be to try 1-2 times. This is what I do. But after sending the first text, don't text them the next day. Unless they texts back, wait a 1-2 days or so and text them again. If they didn't text back, then wait another 1-2 days and invite the, to out to dinner or somewhere. If she replies to you, great! (Even if they reject you, at least they were honest and didnt ghost you). But if they don't reply, then yeah. You can cut you losses and move on.
Another advice would be to just call them! Personally, if a girl had the courage to just call me and ask me out, I would be flattered. I might not feel the same way but at least I would thank her for being courageous and bold enough to ask me. And who knows? Maybe they might change their mind later! So just call them and ask them out! If they say yes, great! If not, at least now you know where you stand instead of wasting time.
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