“You need to love yourself before someone loves you” What if I don’t love myself solely because no one else loves me

I(22m) really do feel this way.

How am I supposed to love myself when no one else loves me? I try to love myself but it’s hard to love myself when all the women I’ve interacted with shown me that I’m unattractive and not good enough for a relationship.

I’ve tried endlessly to better myself, in looks, in personality, and in all forms of dateability but I’ve been failing miserably. When I try to love myself I feel all of these rejections.

I really am at a point where I desperately need someone else to tell me that I have value or that I’m desirable or they find me attractive. Because all of those matter to other people. Nothing changes if I find myself attractive or think I’m desirable.

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