(sorry for the long post) i (18 F) want to leave my boyfriend (18 M), we have a 3 month old together tho… i have started to resent him so much and honestly i dont know if i even like him anymore. im a stay at hom mom and i am with her 24/7 every other week sometimes once a week i will get an hour or 2 that my parents will watch my daughter while i go to the store or hangout with my bf and his friends. other than that she is with me all the time and i am the only one who takes care of her, sometimes when my parents are around they will hold her for a little bit so i can eat but thats about it. my bf wont watch or take care of her hardly at all, this is the normal day for us- i wake him up for work, i take care of our daughter all day until 4-5 when he gets home, he holds her for 2 minutes then gives her back to me and plays the video game until dinner(recently i havent been letting him play while she is awake because he ignores us until he goes to sleep) when I don’t let him play the game, he will sit on the couch on his phone until its her bedtime. that is our routine, almost every day unless he decides to go do stuff after work (when he does that he is gone normally until she is abt to gts or is already asleep. i will ask him to play with our daughter and he always says no im tiered, or will just sit next to her playing on his phone. yesterday i went to the store for 45 minutes to get groceries and i left her with him. every 10 minutes he called me yelling at me because she was crying. when i got home he immediately tried to get on his ps5 and got mad when i told him not to, i wake up with her every night multiple times in the night, then have to wakeup with her at 6 am everyday he gets to sleep until 7 but anytime i ask him to hold her for a little so i can take a shower he is “too tiered and just wants to relax”. i feel like im a single mom in a relationship where i dont even like my partner. i have no income and cant work because nobody can watch my baby. he will spent hundreds of dollars on whatever he wants but if i ask him to get dipers he freaks out and gets mad cus he wants to “save money” but its ok for him to go and spent 80$ on his video games. my grandma gave me 15$ and otw home from his moms house i asked to get tacos, i was 50 cents short and he got pissed off at me any yelled that i tricked him into buying my tacos. i tried to give him back the money and he threw it back at me and said he didnt want my money. im so sick of this and idk what to do, sorry again for the long post:/
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