Lately it has been insanely difficult to find a woman. I’ve tried tinder and a few other dating apps and the closest I’ve ever got to a real date was getting stood up by two different girls. I’ve been insanely frustrated lately because I work full time due to Covid (National Guard) and there are only men there. I’ve asked all my other friends for help and advice and neither of them care enough to get girls themselves or have been in a long term relationship to begin with.
People tell me get on these apps and usually it’s conversations that go nowhere. Either I’m really bad at the apps or idk because I’ve put my best foot out everytime. It’s also been a little over year since I’ve even kissed or been intimate with a girl and I went into a kind of depressive recluse for a little while because I was so torn over her but that’s a completely different story.
People also tell me to try and approach girls in public but I’m also insanely shy and need time to warm up to people before I can feel comfortable enough to carry a normal conversation. (Asian/AMWF stereotypes never helped me either with confidence)
Moral of the story is this is just insanely frustrating and I really feel it isn’t getting anywhere and I really just wanna meet the right girl but I feel like I never get anywhere. I’m always respectful and have a stable job and position in the military too. I also feel like I’m a decent looking guy in decent shape but I’ve always struggled with this but now probably because of Covid I’ve been on my longest dry spell eve.(No my goal isn’t just sex either). Many people say it’s cause I’m young but does it get better from there? Am I missing some invisible opportunity or something?
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