So I (22M) think I should skip the whole story and cut to the chase. I told a friend of mine I liked her (22F) (romantically obviously) like 5 months ago. Since then we talk from time to time and I've asked her out 2 times. 1 time she said that she had to study and the other that she already had plans with some friends and if wanted I could go with.
Now what I don't know is how to bring the whole "I want us to be a thing" conversation again. Since that day 5 months ago I haven't spoken to her about that and I don't want to just ask her out through text again because that is too predictable.
One of her friends told me that she thinks about it, and a friend of mine told me that her best friend told him that as well.
What complicates things is the whole lockdown thing, which doesn't really give many options for a date and that while I've heard generally good things, she never really texts me unless I do and then she just goes offline and texts back after 4-5 hours.
I've asked a mutual friend and he told me that she doesn't really have something else going on and that I should go for it. What troubles me is that a friend of mine cheated on his gf last year and he won't tell me with who, and I think that there's a huge possibility that it was with her and well I don't know how I'd feel if that was true.
What's also weird is that at times when we're out as a group she stays close to me and we talk a lot, but against she does so only if I start a conversation.
So yeah all things considered I think I'm at loss. I really like her and I'd want to try and make something happens between us, but I also don't want to be the one trying all the time. I feel like I'm being played or something. What would you advice me to do?
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