I’ll admit I (22f) like to tease once in a while, but some of the people I’ve talk to on dating apps take it too far. I am a fan of ABBA (cheesy I know) and it’s on my hinge profile. I matched with a guy and he starts off the conversation staying that he hates ABBA. Haha okay I ask him why not, trying to be light and claiming I’m their #1 fan,he continued to just roast them saying it’s bad music and he’ll never enjoy it. Im assuming he was trying to be funny but I was immediately turned away because he seemed so heated over an 70s Swedish band. And we had matched only a couple of hours ago, I just don’t think it’s appropriate to be so sassy with someone you just started talking to.
Any other women feel the same? This was a very mild version of negging but it just happened to me so I wanted to share/get some perspective. I know online dating is hard as it is, but at least wait until the second date before you roast me for my love for shit music.
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