I'll try to make this short.
I went on a date with a girl, it being the second one we've been on all up. It went quite well and both of us seemed to enjoy it. At the end, I asked if she wanted to do something like this again, and she caught me off guard by asking if I meant as friends, or as a proper date.
Wanting to be honest, I said as a proper date. Then she went on to say something along the lines of that her dating history is terrible and she always, always ends up hurting people. Consequently, she doesn't really want to properly date someone she likes and thinks is a good person because she doesn't want to hurt them.
Now, at this point I asked if she was just saying that to let me down gently, as to not hurt my feelings. (Classic it's not you, it's me). She said that wasn't it. I got kinda confused at this point and didn't know what to say. I bumbled out some lines about how she could be so certain it'd fail again, and stuff like that. It ended with me saying something along the lines of 'we can continue to hang out as friends, and if you want anything more than that you can let me know', and she seemed amiable to that. I leaned over to kiss her cheek and then left.
Now, I just wanna know whether this was a convoluted truth, or if she was actually just trying to reject me without damaging my admittedly fragile feelings.
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