The title says it all. It’s lame because I’m a 25 year old man. I recently got back into the dating game after a breakup with my ex who I was together with for well over a year. Man I forgot how weird dating is.
Idk about you guys but sometimes, for me at least. Dating feels forced. I don’t mind coming out of my comfort zone and dating is exciting but it’s also bizarre meeting strangers and deciding whether or not you want to spend emotional energy on them. I downloaded bumble and met a woman off there who had all of the same exact interests as me. We went on a date and it went super well. It didn’t feel right to kiss her for some reason but it was nice.
Her texting habits weren’t what I was looking for. Maybe I’m weird but I do enjoy the small talk texts when you’re getting to know someone because it shows that they’re interested. At least for me. On our second date, it was fun at first but became sort of awkward later on throughout the date. I wanted to kiss her but there was never a time that felt right. She never gave me any physical touch or indication she was attracted to me so I sort of felt a bad vibe from her.
She ended up telling me she wanted to be friends because she wasn’t available enough for dating which I respectfully declined because I had romantic interest in her but from my angle, I can’t seem to shake the thought that maybe it’s because I didn’t kiss her? I’m kinda beating myself up over this.
When do you guys think it’s ok to go in for the kiss? I’ve always struggled with this.
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