I’m doing carpentry work for a well off family that has an aupair from Germany (live in nanny) I’m 31 shes 26 she came over here around September 2020. I knew she was there we talked a few times but I never really noticed her until a few days before Christmas so I grab her a $15 Starbucks gift card. Then in invite her to New Year’s Eve for some Chinese food with the family because the family she is nannying for went to their ski home, leaving her behind. So everything goes great she stomps our asses at monopoly. On the 1/2 I call and invited her to go bowling she accepts and we get there it’s shut down. ( mind you I called in advance the machine said they were open covid yay! ) so after that we decided to go to the mall, they are having a fire drill. I suggest coffee at Starbucks, they are shut down so we hit a local coffee shop down the street. Go back to the mall mind you were chatting this whole time. When we get back to the mall we do two laps around it chatting the whole time. Get back to the bowling ally and I park next to her car we talk some more in total it was around 3 hours of chatting. I thought it went great so I invited her over the next day for game night. She declined .(not faulting her for that three days in a row is kind of much now that I think back on it) I then wait a week and asked her to go do some indoor mini golfing I got “I’ll think about it” for an answer and from being a business owner I know that phrase is a resounding NO! The next week comes I catch covid so we really don’t chat and I’m not bringing her the daily coffee I get for her while I’m working there. Now it’s about a month later and just about every time she sees me we’re talking for a significant amount of time, about family, food and so on. I’m wondering if I should go and ask her out or if she’s just being super nice and just likes being chatting to be because I buy her coffee or am I over thinking this? I also realize the only real way to actually know is to ask at least once more I’m just looking for second options at this point.
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